I was asked why am I getting married.
I said in my last post the main reason is because ‘I WANT TO”.
That is a true statement and I gave some other reasons in the last blog too.
I pondered this question, yet again, after posting I’M GETTING MARRIED.
As I was driving around, it occurred to me: I am getting married in 2 days and I am considering the WHY.
I am getting married to show the world my external expression of my internal world.
Marriage is recognition to you what he means to me on the inside.
I am telling the world I will do anything to thrive and be healthy with me, him and US.
Some of you reading this have known me for a while and you’ve seen my patterns and choices of 2 other marriages and subsequent relationships.
They all leaned toward the unhealthy more than the healthy, let alone, thriving.
I had no idea how to prosper and thrive in my own life, therefore, absolutely no clue how to thrive with someone else.
I am proud and honored to be MARRYING someone that is my best friend and confidant.
I am overjoyed at the prospect of spending my days with someone that loves life, living and growing in love and much as I do.
We also love our solitude and we know how to do it together and apart, which means we don’t take each other personally when we need to be in that place.
It is a beautiful experience to be announcing to THE WORLD through the statement of marriage; we are deepening our commitment and asking you to witness this and share in our joy.
Thank you for sharing the journey with us.