I am writing to share with you my EXCITEMENT.
We got our marriage license and we are getting married 9/9/2017.
It is so extraordinary to be sharing with you something that I only thought was a possibility for others.
I didn’t believe I was truly worthy of having the life I have today. I believed it was only possible for everyone else.
I get the BLESSING AND GIFT of marrying my best friend. I have called him my best friend for a while now as our dance has progressed and we have grown closer. NOW, I get to marry him. I feel like the symbology of marriage represents the deepening of our relationship and we get to share it with the world.
It’s this announcement that tells our community we are making a commitment and we are celebrating and asking you to witness our union. As you witness this union, we are creating and holding a space for all to grow in your own relationships.
Someone asked me why I am getting married. I have examined this question since we’ve been engaged. The biggest reason is I WANT TO MARRY MY BESTIE. I am telling the world this is the man I choose to spend my life with and go to any length to create a loving, thriving and healthy life together.
Most of my life has NOT been this way.
It has been a journey into loving myself from the inside out.
I got to learn how to love me, so I could love you.
I had nothing to offer as long as I was searching outside of me for my worth and value.
I didn’t know how to do it any other way, until I learned how to make the journey inside.
I got to learn how to heal the wounded animal that lives in me(the inner child).
I have reprogrammed the messages that were NEVER mine to begin with.
I get to be present everyday to who I am and know the journey is endless, which does not mean I AM NOT ENOUGH.
I accept that I am evolving and growing each and every day.
I have become a woman I had no idea I was or could be.
I only knew what I grew up with and was taught as a child.
Today, I can say I have healed many of the wounds and damage that caused me to look to you to feel okay.
I understand today that by healing my wounds, I break the cycle of the generational wounding that has been passed along.
I am a phoenix rising out of the ashes to be born anew.
I have been transformed and can now come to this relationship as a whole person.
I have chosen a whole person and together we get to create a marriage that looks like no other either of us have experienced before.
We choose each other from a place of whole and complete and create a new whole and complete marriage where we are interdependent with each other.
We continue each day growing and expanding independently and together.
We reflect our BEST to each other and bring our BEST to the world.
We get to continue learning how to love deeper than we ever knew possible.
AND we get to share it with each other and be a living example in the world.
What a blessing and a gift.
I am grateful I get the privilege and honor of sharing with you.
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